Posted in Happiness, Inspiration, Life lessons

Chasing Happiness

Today I am thinking about happiness and some thoughts come to mind. Over the years I have known a great many souls chasing after happiness, trying so hard to find it, and often associating another person with it as if it was dependent on that person to provide such sought happiness. The dictionary defines happiness as a mental or emotional state of well-being that is characterized by pleasant emotions. A contentment, joy, a pleasurable or satisfying experience. It is a mind-body connection, aspects of our physical body that affects our mood, our way of thinking, our environment, and external factors.

But how do we, ourselves, define happiness in our words, in our feelings, for us? Is it the same for everyone or does it depend on the person? What is the meaning of happiness, is it the spice of life, the ultimate goal and achievement? Perhaps defining happiness and getting to the root of it is pointing out everything that is not happiness in our life. If we don’t feel joy, and anxiety or even depression lingers, perhaps this is a good way to start. What if those things that don’t bring joy were removed? Would we feel happier? Is the choice up to us to remove these things and take that first step? I know it’s easier said than done, but that choice is always ours. It’s just that until that choice and decision is made, much has to happen and that is different from person to person. From different tolerance levels, to patience being a virtue or not, to being stubborn, hot headed and egotistical, having to work up the courage, to believing in yourself and loving yourself, it all plays a vital role on the journey to that moment.

The other day I read by an unknown source that ironically enough, when we make peace with the fact that the purpose of life is not happiness, but rather experience and growth, happiness comes as a natural byproduct. In other words, when you aren’t seeking it as the objective, it will find its way to you. So maybe the objective is hidden in our experiences. To gather lessons as life long students. To learn and to grow wise from these moments that teach us and ever so slowly mold us into our highest version of self. Perhaps it is recognizing the process, these moments, where we find our content, where we realize that everything always happens in it’s own divine timing. Maybe it is then, in that moment when we’ve made peace that calm and serenity surrounds us. Where we know that everything is as it should be. Where we accept and allow, live and let live, even when things are not perfect yet in our perception. They always are, it’s just that lessons still need to be learned, wounds still need to be healed, triggers still need to be disarmed.

Wishing you happiness and contentment. In light and love, always.

Posted in Happiness, Inspiration, Life

For a happy life

Shhh Mark this post is for you, especially the first paragraph. Sorry I couldn’t help it. If you don’t know Mark, please be sure to stop by and say hello. He is simply amazing and there are not enough hours in the day to brag about him and tell you how awesome he is. Plus he likes chocolate Hehehehe, so here we go. These are essential points for a happy life according to butterflies and pebbles and chocolate tops the list. 😉

Make sure one of the paths in your life leads to the beach, the forest, and on some days a table full of cake and chocolate. 🙏🏼💙

Walk barefoot wherever and whenever you can.

Learn to love your alone time.

Always let your heart hole and dream and love.

Be honest with yourself.

Turn the page you are stuck on. Expand the story.

Make enjoyment important in your life.

See your age as a gift and not a curse.

How many can you check off? In light and love, always. 🙏🏼💙🦋