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Structure: noun The arrangement of and relations between the parts or elements of something complex. To construct or arrange accordingly to a plan. To give a pattern or organization to.

I am introducing something new into my life this week. I’ve never been one of great structure, planners and schedules. I’ve been the wild child going with the flow, allowing life to happen as it is meant to be. Of course this can only apply to an extent and some things need to be scheduled. But whenever there was freedom to let them unfold naturally, this was my preferred method of things. It strikes me odd these days given that I managed in retail for many years where those kind of things are highly rated. For a moment the thought crosses my mind that maybe this applies to my personal life, but then on the other hand, can we ever truly separate our professional life from our personal one? We are who we are, and we carry the same traits on and off the screen. It’s merely another thing, a thing of prior habits and the past, a thing I never paid much attention to.

To be honest, I am finding myself in need of a little more structure these days. The word came up while thinking about current goals and ambitions. I feel there is not a direct timeline attached on when I would like to see them completed. They just kind of exist, hanging there in limbo. Perhaps that used to be ok in prior years, but it is now that I feel a little structure could send me on my way. A way where these goals can actually be measured and where progress can be seen. I now feel that a little planning is important to keep us on track and to not let important things turn stale or fall to the wayside all together. Within this line of thoughts, I think about the book I want to write and at this rate I’d never finish in my lifetime. I think a little structure such as a writing day, for the book, could do wonders and may actually make me feel like something is happening. I have writing days now, but these are mainly for the blog and not my book, so it sits there and it waits and it waits.

I am looking to find the balance between structure and going with the flow and I think I might just found a way where both can co-exist equally without interfering with the other. For instance: I could have a weekly book writing day, but give myself the freedom, going with the flow of which chapter I feel like talking/writing about. I could have a daily Cinnamon and me exercise/hike day, but instead of allowing it to feel like a routine, I can give myself the freedom to choose our adventure and where we go. I think this can be applied to all things in our life, the things that need to be done, the things that are waiting for us on a daily and weekly basis, chores, tasks, as well as in general. Maybe we can breathe new life into the mundane and spice it it up a bit. Perhaps a little structure is beneficial, as long as we can bring a productive and happy flow to it. Perhaps it’s even fun. I think I will give it a try and see what progress can be made.


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6 thoughts on “Structure

  1. I feel a rebound might be in order. Having had your life forcibly structured by separation, house cleaning, packing and selling, a new home etc, etc. It has forced a way of being that sounds like is the antithesis of who you are. So a shake of all that may be called for, rebound from all it meant and let go into whatever that flow is my friend. If that isn’t creating by letting go I don’t know what is. Just enjoy 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋 😂 🤣

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  2. Maybe this is just, what you need right now, dear Rhapsody.
    I do try to make plans for the coming days and how I would like to use these. Some days it goes by the plans and other days, totally not. This feels okay too, as the days where the plans dismiss, I will have fun or so in other ways, so more like a day off, which is nice too.
    With my daughter and grandchildren so close, my plans might chance quick sometimes.
    I’m not well with structure either, but have recognized that this might help me a bit to get more done. Sometimes can even few points at the daily paper help me to kick myself and get the day started, which often ends up in a very different way.
    Much love and a huge hug, dear friend ❤

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    1. I do the same to an extend, just not keeping a tight schedule. However I do have an idea what I would like to do throughout the week, but I much go with the flow and an “oh well” attitude if it doesn’t happen. I look back and realize how much has happened this year. Maybe it is time for a break but that doesn’t seem in the cards until Germany is handled. Much love and blessings to you. 💙

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