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In it’s own due time

You know I think it’s quite amazing how things work out in there own due time. When the time is right. Things I’ve used to struggle with, that perhaps at one point I’ve tried to force (without avail), only made life a living hell, with nothing but grief. Little did I realize at that time that everything has it’s own rhythm, it’ own vibration, it’s own timeline, and it’s own maturity of when it’s ready. Only then can progress be made without running up against that same wall that never budges.

I have learned that it’s nearly impossible to challenge any sort of resolution if the timing is not on our side. It only causes more struggles and periods of uneasiness and unrest. It makes me wary, feeling distressed, and anxious. I unnecessarily age in the process of it, hahaha, but it’s true and my health takes a dip. When I look at it from that aspect, I have to admit that my chronic disease in some parts has been a blessing in disguise. It has allowed me to take better care of myself, to listen to my body and be more kind and respectful towards this temple that holds it all together for me on a daily basis. It is true that today I see more positives than negatives when it comes to suffering an autoimmune disorder. I believe that everything had to happen the way it did, in order for me to make these vital changes. Only because is it possible to have a better life in the end.

I also learned that other times when I do go with the flow, when I don’t try to force and plan everything out, when I just accept what comes my way as a great gift, that it is then that everything miraculously falls into place by itself. It’s almost like being rewarded and shown how simple it truly can be. It’s like encouragement of the finest to continue on this path and to drop any resistance that might remains.

The question arises if this goes back to learning not to interfere, to not resist and to trust that the universe will provide? That the universe has our back, loves us and wants us to do well. I’d say that personally I have made this a focus, and I’d tell you that if we can adapt to this motto and live by these values, we perhaps learn to live a more peaceful life with less headaches and drama.

Life will always fall into place in it’s own due time. On it’s own terms. We can resist and struggle or trust and believe. We can look the order way or make the best out of every situation that comes our way. A tell tell sign may be this: Have you ever tried extremely hard to make something work but it just didn’t? It’s so hard and takes so much effort. Everything goes wrong and you have to work so hard trying to reach the goal you envisioned for yourself. You keep running up against that wall that won’t budge. I’m sure you have been there. Frustrating isn’t it? But what about if we changed our approach, if we could recognize that perhaps there are still lessons along the way we need to learn, and that that is the very reason that wall won’t budge. Because we are not ready. What if we could understand that when things are that hard, perhaps the timing is not right. Not yet anyways. I’m not saying that you won’t have to work hard, or that life will be easy. I’m not saying that everything always falls into place, but I am saying that you have a choice of much frustration and resistance you expose yourself to.

Just remember…Blessings happen every day and in their own due time. 🙏🏼🦋💙

Author:

Who am I, and why I write. I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one. I am the one, holding on to the silver lining when the skies are gray. I’m a believer that nothing is coincidence, but that everything has purpose. I’ve made my mistakes, don’t we all, but I see them as growing pains and they are a part of who I am today. I have lost myself in order to find myself, and I still do from time to time, but in a good way. I’m a big child who laughs until my belly hurts when life wants to be serious. Career wise: I’ve been there, done that, and I took “The jump” off the hamster wheel in an effort to change my future. I didn’t land all that soft, but I can say that I’m still proud to have found the courage to do it. Coming full circle, I had it all, and yet I was lonely and had nothing. Today I choose to be a collector of moments and I chase memories, instead of the material stuff. Less is more, and the motto is quality over quantity. You’d be amazed at how freeing it can be. I see myself as a free spirit that believes in an unconventional lifestyle. Somehow I go against the grain most of the times, not to rebel, but because it feels right to stay true to my unique and authentic self. It takes courage, and you often stand alone, but if you dare, you soon realize that it is the only way if you don’t want to lose who you are. Just like most, my past wasn’t easy and I come from a life that didn’t always give me the opportunity to be heard. Few related and even fewer cared to take the time. But that’s the past and it’s history, the future hasn’t happened and the “NOW” is truly all we ever have. In the end we all have a story to tell, and we all seek to be understood. We all yearn to be heard and accepted and still life is hard and our path is full of stumbling blocks. If we can see the lessons in adversity we may realize that the toughest moments are often our greatest teachers. There is a reason for the saying that the stars can’t shine without darkness, and it might be darkness that will show you the light.
It took a series of (un)fortunate events, to learn to glow through the pain, to learn how to dance in the rain. I believe in Magic and wonder, and the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. As an empath this old soul often feels a little too much, but I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Today, I am here to tell my story because I believe that it can help others. It is my hope to bring inspiration and strengths to you, while showing you that it can be done. I know you are out there, and I know you are suffering in silence. I am here to tell you that you are not alone, and your voice is being heard loud and clear. Hang on and be strong, transformation is yours. 
In light and love....Rhapsody Bohème 💙🦋

45 thoughts on “In it’s own due time

  1. Who me? Push? Never! 😂 🤣
    I had a personal website project I’ve been working on for many years, and I got to a point where I was putting in ‘stupid’ hours. 18 hr days…and wondered why no matter how hard I pushed to finish it just kept going wrong. Simple things became a quagmire…and…after a tired push, push, push, got to the so called end and realised I had made a mistake waaaaay back in the beginning that required me to go waaaaay back and start again.
    I have redesigned it 3 times…and I will never admit this to anyone…but I was doing it in my sleep. I would wake up in the odd times I slept and have an answer from spirit…in the bits that were fine to do. In the end I can now see that all those times of mistakes WERE for a proper finish but at the time I almost wept with the frustration. My attitude was wrong, wrong, wrong!
    I do 3 hrs a day now and even then just go for a walk and forget it…ah, it feels way different now…and comes together so much easier. Um, is that the thing they call patience? 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋

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    1. Oh man that had to be sooo frustrating. And now we can look back and see it with different eyes, even to the point of laughing about ourselves. In case you have not reached that point yet….more chocolate is my recommendation. And if you have, well heck…more chocolate anyways. He hehe 😜

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    1. I am so glad it is speaking to you in that sense. I have been there before and it’s reassuring when it happens and someone understands us at this level, letting us know we are not alone. And you are not. Love and light to you, beautiful soul. ❤️

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  2. I’m a firm believer in good things happen to those who wait. It’s happened on a few occasions to me when something I wanted at one point… ended up coming to me later ❤ The universe knows what it's doing, and I trust it wholeheartedly ❤ Beautiful post!

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    1. Me too and i don’t believe anything can be forced. It somehow holds so much more meaning when it does happen and you can totally feel that the time is right. Thank you so much for sharing and thank you for your beautiful words. Hugs ❤️

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  3. Blessings in disguise. I agree with your comment on health. Diagnosed with “Chronic Fatigue” which ultimately ended up being severe mercury poisoning almost 30 years ago. On the down slope of my 50’s, I would say it was my health problems in my 20’s and my life choices bc of it that have me feeling and even looking better than perhaps ever in my life.
    And…Amen! to just allowing life to happen!

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      1. Thank you for your kind words. You as well! Sense we were born on the same energy wavelength!!
        My story…yes…in a written form. I’ve been waiting for the stars to align and signal I’m ready to publish. Preparing myself but the hearts of the country/world being readied as well. 7 years ago when it was completed few would care to here…but with the onset of CoVid and all else happening in America…across the globe, that time is now. I begin to move forward with courage…and caution.
        I am certain you will be doing the same!!
        Namaste to you too my friend 🕊🦋🙏

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      2. Timing is everything, that’s for sure but how exciting. I would love to read your book and I will be amongst the first to buy it.
        Of course you will know when the time is right to publish. Maybe you set the intention out there into the universe on the next new moon and let it manifest into reality.
        Maybe there is a bigger audience now vs 7 years ago, although I do believe that our tribe and like minded others are out there plentiful. But I hear you and know what you mean. Everything will fall into place exactly how it’s meant to be. Big love to you 💙

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      1. All I know is that everything has purpose. We might not always like it, but if we learn to see even the bad things as an opportunity and a lesson that we need to learn, if we can resist less and just go with the flow, it all becomes more relative and easier to deal with.

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  4. Beautiful thought..
    There is a limit to everything…one should not push beyond a limit…this limit has to be self set…this is where most of us go wrong ..setting our benchmark wrong..
    Stay blessed 🙏

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  5. So much Magick in life if we allow it to unfold like the beautiful blossom!!
    Big “aha” moment for me as was brought into awareness that my Native American soul connection is more accurately and precisely a Mayan connection. A culture I was studying extensively back in 2012/2013 as I wrapped up my 1st book. My eldest getting married in 3 weeks in Xcaret Mexico. Never been there before. Honestly never knew it existed until he brought it up as his destination wedding. Was suppose to be in May…but now I’m finding myself there with during the time of the Opening of the Portal to the new world!!! And suddenly realize its in the home ace of who I believe are my soul ancestors the Mayans!! A very powerful “coming home” at hand!!! Trying to wrap my mind around it as all the details big and little of my last 30 + years converge into this moment! The Universe and God SO AMAZING AND CREATIVE!!

    Hope you well love!!
    Side note…how’s your new love Cinnamon??
    My grandpuppies are due a week from today! 9 or 10 baby golden retrievers! Thinking its time to get one for my daughter. We’ll see if its meant to be! Much love! ❤
    Have a fabulous upcoming holiday!!!

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    1. Wow that is amazing and the universe works in mysterious ways. I can hardly contain myself and I’m so excited for you. One the best parts is that you are ready, aware, awakened and conscious. You will and can take it all in. Get excited, because I am.
      I will embrace the new world, which in actuality I have already, but consciously think about the official start date. I will go with the flow and it will be amazing.
      Everything is well here, just working towards changes, shedding the old and building the new life.
      Cinnamon is a sweet soul and she has bonded so tightly to me. Follows me everywhere and she has brought so much joy already. How sweet would it be to keep a grand puppy for your daughter. I hope to see pictures when the time comes. Big love to you and happy thanksgiving. 🍁

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      1. Thank you for your kind words!! Embracing every minute including everything right now! Have been all year and beyond it just keeps enhancing. Pulling more inward for this leg of the journey.
        Yay Cinnamon! Definitely a present from God!! Keep enjoying the ride!! Only to become more Magickal!!
        💜🕊🦋

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      2. Your words are magic to me my sister and it often feels as if you know my heart as we share the same journey. You could think you are speaking for me and I share the same experiences.
        I have pulled inward as well as I mostly prepare in silence. It’s understanding every step that is now happening or needs to happen. Exciting and yet so new. Definitely a leap of faith.
        Cinnamon is definitely a gift from god, but the timing though. I know I need her and I know she has a soul contract to fulfill and is in my life for a reason. I have to trust that she is a part of the divine plan. 🦋💙🙏🏼

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  6. OMG!! When I read your words!! Yes!!
    Interesting…just had this huge sense of the birthing process. (especially as Miss Zoey prepares to deliver this weekend!! Puppies!!!) But that inward spiritual time that’s peaceful and reflective before the excitement and celebration of new life.
    So feel intertwined with you…but then that’s my premise for the world to be blanketed in peace. The unification as others bring their hearts and forgotten souls to this sacred God place within!
    Absolutely a leap of faith! …maybe not knowing every step but knowing the process to open oneself up to every step ahead.
    Give Cinnamon some love from me! She’s the happiest pooch I can tell! 🕊🦋💜

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    1. I have learned that it’s ok not to know every step and that in itself was a leap of faith. Having to be in the know, knowing every step, every detail is a sense of having to be in control. To not be surprised and taken off guard, as to not being prepared and making a fools out of themselves. Eventually I learned not to care about these things anymore and it took a burden off of me. It’s a process though. One that requires letting go of the ego, the false pretense and the image one often tries to uphold about them.
      Awe Cinnamon is sending kisses and a warm hello to Miss Zoey. Xo 😘

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      1. Puppies!!!!! Just got sent a picture of momma with 2 babies. I’m told there’s 7 with one more expected!!
        Did I mention his GF is a vet?? An identical twin and their both vets and they both breed goldens. Puppies everywhere! Lol! Much love!!
        🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶

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