You know I think it’s quite amazing how things work out in there own due time. When the time is right. Things I’ve used to struggle with, that perhaps at one point I’ve tried to force (without avail), only made life a living hell, with nothing but grief. Little did I realize at that time that everything has it’s own rhythm, it’ own vibration, it’s own timeline, and it’s own maturity of when it’s ready. Only then can progress be made without running up against that same wall that never budges.
I have learned that it’s nearly impossible to challenge any sort of resolution if the timing is not on our side. It only causes more struggles and periods of uneasiness and unrest. It makes me wary, feeling distressed, and anxious. I unnecessarily age in the process of it, hahaha, but it’s true and my health takes a dip. When I look at it from that aspect, I have to admit that my chronic disease in some parts has been a blessing in disguise. It has allowed me to take better care of myself, to listen to my body and be more kind and respectful towards this temple that holds it all together for me on a daily basis. It is true that today I see more positives than negatives when it comes to suffering an autoimmune disorder. I believe that everything had to happen the way it did, in order for me to make these vital changes. Only because is it possible to have a better life in the end.
I also learned that other times when I do go with the flow, when I don’t try to force and plan everything out, when I just accept what comes my way as a great gift, that it is then that everything miraculously falls into place by itself. It’s almost like being rewarded and shown how simple it truly can be. It’s like encouragement of the finest to continue on this path and to drop any resistance that might remains.
The question arises if this goes back to learning not to interfere, to not resist and to trust that the universe will provide? That the universe has our back, loves us and wants us to do well. I’d say that personally I have made this a focus, and I’d tell you that if we can adapt to this motto and live by these values, we perhaps learn to live a more peaceful life with less headaches and drama.
Life will always fall into place in it’s own due time. On it’s own terms. We can resist and struggle or trust and believe. We can look the order way or make the best out of every situation that comes our way. A tell tell sign may be this: Have you ever tried extremely hard to make something work but it just didn’t? It’s so hard and takes so much effort. Everything goes wrong and you have to work so hard trying to reach the goal you envisioned for yourself. You keep running up against that wall that won’t budge. I’m sure you have been there. Frustrating isn’t it? But what about if we changed our approach, if we could recognize that perhaps there are still lessons along the way we need to learn, and that that is the very reason that wall won’t budge. Because we are not ready. What if we could understand that when things are that hard, perhaps the timing is not right. Not yet anyways. I’m not saying that you won’t have to work hard, or that life will be easy. I’m not saying that everything always falls into place, but I am saying that you have a choice of much frustration and resistance you expose yourself to.
Just remember…Blessings happen every day and in their own due time. 🙏🏼🦋💙