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The untethered soul

The untethered soul, the journey beyond yourself by Michael A. Singer was the book I took on my little camping trip. My first attempt reading it failed, and I chalk it up to the timing not being right. Reading it this time, I felt as if my own spiritual journey was explained and made sense of. It was a celebration to see how far I had come, while each chapter shed more light on the actual how’s and why’s itself, and how to free oneself from a life of conditioning. It allowed me to understand the actions and behaviors of others in greater detail and to meet actual painful experiences with more love, understanding and compassion. It allowed me to make peace and gain greater insight of what it is we all face on this journey beyond ourselves.

I would highly recommend it to anyone who has questions, who is daring to take a look, and seeking to understand more about themselves. It’s a journey of our thoughts and emotions, our inner dialogue and the fluctuations of our inner energy, resulting in feelings, behaviors and reactions, a lifelong programming we adapt in order to protect ourselves from pain. It’s a journey of awareness and awakening, tethered to the ego with hands on examples and scenarios for inner freedom and liberation. It’s simple, yet a pure mastery of clarity. It has profoundly touched me this time around and is one of the best self help books since Eckhart Tolle. I will probably quote and share bits and pieces with you many times going forward.

In awakening consciousness and the first chapter titled “the voice inside your head,” Michael talks about our inner voice and the dialogue we have with ourselves. It’s the voice that keeps you up at night when you are trying to sleep, the voice that only you can hear, the dialogue that narrates your entire world. It never stops. Even when it is saying nice things, it’s still disturbing everything you’re doing. You surely have heard this voice in the past, haven’t you? So who is this voice if you are the one who is observing it and why do we do it? A study carefully revealed that the narration makes us feel more comfortable with the world around us. For instance: You walk home alone late at night. It’s dark and foggy and you feel an eerie silence. Your mind and inner dialogue is going a 100 miles an hour.

“All is ok, not too much further. I’m almost home. What was that noise, is someone following me. Should I run or keep my composure?”

It goes on and on and it never stops, playing out every possible scenario. The narrative keeps us focused, distracted, even calm and again it tips back to the need of being in control, being prepared for the unknown and the unexpected. It all happens in an attempt to protect ourselves from pain and to avoid any inner disturbances.

Reality is a serious thing for many of us and is often too difficult to deal with it. We try to temper it with our minds and our inner dialogue, talking our way through the difficulties. In an attempt to hold the world together, you are really just trying to hold yourself together. True personal growth is about transcending the part of you that is not ok and needs protection. This is done by constantly remembering that you are the one inside that notices the voice talking. If used properly, the same mental voice that has been a source of worry, distraction, and general neurosis can become the launching ground for true spiritual awakening. Come to know the one who watches the voice, and you will come to know one of the gray mysteries of creation.

Words: excerpts from the book “the untethered soul” and myself


We are the co-creators of our life and the time is now. More than ever are we needed to support Mother Earth and each other. Together we discover and explore our unique gifts in times of strengths, in times we lean on each other, and in times when we learn from each other. This blog started as an outlet and what I ultimately called my “Warriors Journey.” It was a way to document the ups and downs of my life, sharing my hardships as well as my successes. It showcased the struggles, but more important the ways of how to overcome them. Although we are warriors each and every day, I realized that having to be a warrior, comes from a place of pain. I decided to rename this blog, and “Phoenix Rising” now stands for the story of overcoming such a painful place. My motivation for this blog hasn’t changed and I hope to share inspiration and hope, to create a sense of belonging, a space of being heard, and connecting with like minded beings who instill a sense of oneness. We are never alone, and we are unstoppable in the pursuit of what sets our soul on fire. Who I am in a nutshell... 
I am an energy healer and Reiki Master. I am surviving a chronic disease that I’ve sent into remission three times since my initial bout, 15 years ago. I continuously challenge the status quo and by doing so I change my stars. I am a believer that anything is possible. I am a hopeless romantic and I believe that true love exists on various levels. I am an optimist that will always see the glass as half full. I am a dreamer, believing in endless possibilities. Not even the sky is the limit. I have jumped off of the hamster wheel, and I am writing a new chapter. I am chasing my Nirvana to support my most authentic self. This is my story, I am that Phoenix and I am rising from the ashes. Namaste 🙏🏼💙🦋

6 thoughts on “The untethered soul

  1. Don’t know if I’ve read that one. Took a quick look through my little library but didn’t notice it, but I got tired after the steps up to the second story. I’ll try the third level next week 😂 🤣
    My unit is a bit full of spiritual, healing and herbal books. Mind you, I was flabbergasted when I found a book on making kites…say what? I must have accidentally stole it off my kids a loooooong time ago. Mind you, it would probably be great fun now 😂 🤣

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    1. Sounds like a great collection and I’m sure I’d find plenty titles of interest. Was there a specific book that spoke to you in your spiritual journey? Any recommendations? I’m reading more about soul contracts currently which helps to understand as well.
      Hey kites are fun. I have a dragon kite but it was bought and it would bring a whole different experience had i made it myself. I might have to borrow that book from your kids lol. 😂

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      1. For some reason (and for me, this was many, many years ago), it was in reading Michael Newtons books Journey Of Souls, Destiny Of Souls and Life Between Lives. I think it was the right books at the right time. Beyond that I read many…The Journey by Brandon Bays, Anatomy Of The Spirit by Caroline Myss, the series of Conversations With God by Neale Donald Walsch. There are so many of them and I find that I will be attracted to the ones that stand out for me…I’ll be ready to absorb what I need so to speak. The most recent one (and the first spiritual book I’ve read in ages), was ‘The Shack’ (its in a movie now which I’ve seen), but for some reason spirit has blocked me from the book. Not sure what is happening there, I probably need to absorb something in my life first 😀
        And your right, after all that I am now drifting back to making kites and reading journeys of magic 😂 🤣

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      2. A few are familiar and thank you for sharing. The shack was also made into a movie which I thought was great and very moving.
        In my case too, different books stood out at different times and right now I am reading one about soul contracts which I believe in as well. It all makes sense and explains some of the stumbling blocks along the way.
        Hey kites are the bomb ❤️😉

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