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Flawsome

It’s time for a new word discovery. This one made me think, enough so to dedicate a post about it. I wonder how this word makes you feel?

Flawsome:

An individual who embraces their “flaws” and knows they are awesome regardless.

Mmmmh, there is much that could be said. Thoughts and theories could spread out in various directions, pretty much like it can with anything, but what is our true interpretation, our unique perception of the word “Flawsome”? Is it personal, do we relate it to ourselves, or is it merely just another word?

In the case that we relate it to ourselves, I think we are often too hard on us, perhaps even pushing ourselves to unhealthy realities and expectations. Why, because we feel that being perfect is what the world expects of us. Because we need to keep up with a patience, losing, society that more and more views us as an inconvenience. A society where we need to perform at top level. Maybe you are only as good as your last outstanding deed goes, feeling you have to prove yourself each and every day. Perhaps it is hard for you to embrace your flaws and give yourself a break. Perhaps you are setting unrealistic goals for yourself. But how could you accept those flaws if nobody else has. I hear your struggles and I am no stranger to the pressures.

You heard the saying that nobody is perfect and we are all flawed. We all carry our battle scars, our suitcase of experiences, but what if we could look at this a little less like a flaw? If we exuded patience and felt confident, knowing that despite not being perfect, we still know a thing or two which makes us pretty amazing. We would forgive ourselves which in return would lift stressful mountains off of our shoulders. We would be more patient with ourselves, perhaps even with others because we’d understand just how hard it can be.

They say animals sense a persons soul and know if they are good or bad. I am happy that despite my flaws I can still be awesome enough for butterflies to land on me and animals feeling drawn to me.

I hope you have learned to embrace your awesome, because you are simple amazing and one of a kind. 🦋❤️

Author:

We are the co-creators of our life and the time is now. More than ever are we needed to support Mother Earth and each other. Together we discover and explore our unique gifts in times of strengths, in times we lean on each other, and in times when we learn from each other. This blog started as an outlet and what I ultimately called my “Warriors Journey.” It was a way to document the ups and downs of my life, sharing my hardships as well as my successes. It showcased the struggles, but more important the ways of how to overcome them. Although we are warriors each and every day, I realized that having to be a warrior, comes from a place of pain. I decided to rename this blog, and “Phoenix Rising” now stands for the story of overcoming such a painful place. My motivation for this blog hasn’t changed and I hope to share inspiration and hope, to create a sense of belonging, a space of being heard, and connecting with like minded beings who instill a sense of oneness. We are never alone, and we are unstoppable in the pursuit of what sets our soul on fire. Who I am in a nutshell... 
I am an energy healer and Reiki Master. I am surviving a chronic disease that I’ve sent into remission three times since my initial bout, 15 years ago. I continuously challenge the status quo and by doing so I change my stars. I am a believer that anything is possible. I am a hopeless romantic and I believe that true love exists on various levels. I am an optimist that will always see the glass as half full. I am a dreamer, believing in endless possibilities. Not even the sky is the limit. I have jumped off of the hamster wheel, and I am writing a new chapter. I am chasing my Nirvana to support my most authentic self. This is my story, I am that Phoenix and I am rising from the ashes. Namaste 🙏🏼💙🦋

24 thoughts on “Flawsome

    1. Thank you Irene. Sorry for the delay and falling behind answering comments. Trying to get this business going can be overwhelming and I got back and forth, simply not knowing which site to use and knowing so little about it all. Thank you for your kind words. You are the best my dear friend ❤️

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      1. I know you understand Irene. I just hate to keep important people waiting while they took time out of their day to stop by here and give me feedback. It means so much to me. Have a great weekend dear friend❤️

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  1. Yes we are beautiful creatures dear lady, each and every one of us ❤️
    The journey is to ensure that by being poked, prodded and tested at many points along our road, that we will eventually ‘see’ inside, past those fears and understand that by enduring all of this we will find that love and happiness we all search for…that ability to love ourselves ❤️
    Great post and I’m also glad to be flawsome, being able to appreciate exactly what we are ❤️

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    1. Beautifully said my dear friend and filled with profound wisdom and experiences. Someone special once told me that we are constantly tested and it could signify all the obstacles along the way. I think some of the real success lies in seeing those as lessons instead of letting them defy us. In the end flawsome is pretty awesome and unique. ❤️

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      1. Most certainly dear lady, they are the making of us by being exactly what our hearts require to break free. When I finally saw that ‘we’, and yes I said we, actually create the very circumstances to break free of our fears, and in doing so love the one person we have always struggled with….us 💜
        I was so astounded that I had been allowed to see something so wonderful. so perfect for who we are…it could only be created by an unconditional heart…but to get there we have to pull away all those conditions that bind us, to find that beauty waiting gently inside to become that love and happiness we have always sought 💜
        May that perfect flawsome guide you ever inwards 💜

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      2. I can completely relate to that and I have been in the process ever since to remove these conditions and kick convention to the curb. Many don’t understand and it could be viewed as rebellious, but in reality it is just returning to my true nature, myself and who I always was before society forced their rules and guidelines onto me. ❤️🦋

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